AMAPOUNDCAKE

Author: Danni Adams

  • I Needed a Staycation During Covid-19

    I Needed a Staycation During Covid-19

    laying in bed with my Walmart sleepwear on

    I booked a staycation through Airbnb at the Paradise House Orlando and it was so worth it. You might be wondering why I would do a staycation during a pandemic. If you know me, then you know that staying put for a long period of time is very difficult. Sometimes I crave new scenery and experiences. Before COVID-19, I was traveling quite frequently. Every week I was in a different place and when the lockdown happened, I continued to work and run my business. I realized I needed a mental health day. I started working harder and began to sleep less. After a few weeks in the house, I decided that I needed to experience a little fun and take care of myself. 

    Staycations are very inexpensive. Compared to my other trips, I spent less money by staying in my area. I cooked my meals which limited my interaction with other people. I brought all of my groceries from home and the airbnb was inexpensive.

    When I was searching online for the perfect place to stay during this time, I had a list of requirements that all had to be met before I booked my stay. I needed to be in a private space due to Covid-19 because it was important for me to stay safe during this time. Paradise House was the perfect location because it was only a 30 minute drive. I wanted to be in a location that had a beautiful view and there were several beautiful gardens and a canoe.

    I chose an Airbnb with a jacuzzi and a pool because what’s a staycation without a swimsuit photo! 

    What Did I Wear to Bed?

    Before taking a mental health day, I was working 7 days a week morning to night. Grinding is not the way I plan on surviving this.That’s partially why I needed a break during this time. The other part is I really missed adventures. I knew I needed some sleep while at my staycation so I went shopping at the Family Dollar. I purchased a pink comfy pajama set ($9) with slippers ($2.50)

    There is no shame in taking care of yourself during this time. I believe that we all need different things and a staycation was needed.

    This airbnb was perfect and met all of my requirements. The owners were very nice and accommodating. I would definitely book this stay again.

    Stay safe!!

  • What To Do As A Single Person On Valentine’s Day?

    What To Do As A Single Person On Valentine’s Day?

    What to do as a single person on Valentine’s Day?

    Don’t worry! You’re not alone. It’s not the end of the world. You are not worthless because you are single. Your beauty has nothing to do with being single. You’re also not obligated to care about Valentine’s day. It doesn’t make you a negative person or cupids evil twin. You’re also allowed a few moments of sadness. Maybe you recently had a break up or was hoping that your crush would have asked you out. It doesn’t matter, I’m single also and I’m planning to have an amazing day. 

    I am going to give you 5 things to do as a single person for Valentine’s Day. You will thank me later. 

    Watch a Movie 

    It’s Black History Month! Issa Rae’s new movie ‘The Photograph’ comes out tonight and I don’t want twitter to ruin the movie for me. We haven’t seen a modern Black Romance in a long time so I plan on seeing it. If you don’t want to watch a love story, I get it. However, I hope you go watch it at some point because ratings matter boo! 

    Anyways, I’m obsessed with Good Girls (Netflix) and Shrill (Hulu) right now. Both have a leading fat character that isn’t a prop. That’s amazing! So start texting your friends now to get their password to their Netflix account. 

    Decorate your space

    I’m not sure if you’re going to be in an airbnb, hotel, or your home but decorating your room for Valentine’s Day. Put all of the rose petals you want on the bed. Hey, I think you should have a trail of petals leading from the front door to your room. If you don’t want to clean up pedals, how about going to the dollar tree and getting V-Day balloons, a pink table cloth, and something that says “I love you”. Look, there is nothing wrong with creating the ambiance you wanted to share with someone else for yourself. 

    Go visit your local craft store

    Make a love jar! Love jars are so necessary. You will need a jar, ribbons, stickers, scissors, cute paper, and your favorite empowerment playlist. Write the things you want to hear when you’re down. Fold the message up and put it in the jar. Place the jar somewhere special. 

    Girl, get you some batteries

    The Adult-Store is calling you. Pick up! Ummm! There is no shame in spending Valentine’s Day with your vibrator. You will probably be alot better at getting the job done than anyone else. . Just make sure the cat is not in the bed. 

    Plan a night with your friends 

    Let me just say, if you’re the broke friend, head over to Trader Joes to grab the $3 wine. It gets the job done and I haven’t had any complaints. You can order pizza or go out to a very nice restaurant. I love getting dressed up and going to dinner. Maybe wear  those jeans you’ve been dying to wear. I’m sure your butt looks great in them. A twerk Tic-Toc would also be pretty cool with a friend. If you’re looking for something more subtle, go skating or to a hookah bar. 

    I hope this helps. Whatever you do, stay off social media. It’s important that you protect yourself from images that may alter you today. V-Day is only 24 hours and it’s almost over. Have fun tonight!